Monday, May 11, 2009

Happy Mothers Day!! ^_^

I think it's a bit late for me to post this, well I wasn't around this few days so i couldn't get my hands on the keyboard. I nearly forgot to wish my mother 'Happy Mothers' day if not for my friends reminding me. hihi!!!
anyway, we should appreciate all the love and sacrifice that our mother had poured on to us. Its hard just to give birth to us and even harder to raise us.

"We have enjoined on man kindness to his parents; in pain did his mother bear him, and in pain did she give him birth" (46:15).

wonder how hard was it for her going through being patient and with dedication raissing us. thinking back all the bad things that i have sad and all the action that had made her feel sad makes my heart akes. i wish i could take them all back. huhu. As the words in the holy Quran states:

"Thy Lord hath decreed that ye worship none but Him, and that ye be kind to parents. Whether one or both of them attain old age in thy life, say not to them a word of contempt, nor repel them, but address them in terms of honor. And out of kindness, lower to them the wing of humility, and say: ‘My Lord! bestow on them Thy Mercy even as they cherished me in childhood' "(17:23-24).

I wonder how cruel can people sometimes be towards their parents. saying bad words to them, raising their voice and even hurting them. I know we don't like our parents nagging at us all the time lecturing at us for hours and hours (i know how that feels especially if my grade is low haha). They are only doing their job as educator's in the family. Without them playing their role i wonder what would had happened to us and what would we have become today. if you can see what is happening in the western countrys, kids robbing, killing, taking drugs and getting in jail. no offence but you can see the statistics of juvenile cases in America, it keeps on increasing from year to year. this is what will happen if they dont do their job. It hurts them to see us becoming
bad people, and even when they hit us for our wrong doing. It hurts their heart more then it does our butt (haha that sound funny). I wonder how cruel can people be sending their folks in 'Rumah orang tua' as we always hear. is this the way to repay them for all their sacrifice (grrr.. it realy makes me angry).
Please my friends cherish our mothers as we still have time and as God still permit us to do so. listen to things they say to us and if possible obey them. As the lyrics we hear in Yusof Islam's song takken from the hadith:

A man came to the Prophet and said, ‘O Messenger of God! Who among the people is the most worthy of my good companionship? The Prophet said: Your mother. The man said, ‘Then who?' The Prophet said: Then your mother. The man further asked, ‘Then who?' The Prophet said: Then your mother. The man asked again, ‘Then who?' The Prophet said: Then your father. (Bukhari, Muslim).

So show how much we love her. Call them once in a while to ask about their condition and if you can, do it more often. Tell her you love her and if you have the chance DONT BE SHY to hug and kiss her ( i know its too mushy especially for guys but you will get use to it after a few time hihi..). Make her feel proud by scoring in your exams, getting good jobs and becoming obedient children (anak yang soleh tak reti nak translate hihi). This will defenitely make her feel happy. Pray for them to have a life with full of barakah and pray to God for them to have a place by His side in paradise. Don't just wait until Mother's Day to show it to them. We should cherish them always and make every day a Mother's Day. Do it while you still can, because they will not always be around... lastly remember this:

The Prophet Muhammad said, may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him: Your Heaven lies under the feet of your mother (Ahmad, Nasai).

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